10. Test them first. Then let them serve as deacons if you find nothing wrong in them.
11. In the same way, women must be respected by others. They must not speak evil of others. They must be self-controlled and trustworthy in everything.
12. Deacons must have only one wife and be good leaders of their children and their own families.
13. Those who serve well as deacons are making an honorable place for themselves, and they will be very bold in their faith in Christ Jesus.
14. Although I hope I can come to you soon, I am writing these things to you now.
15. Then, even if I am delayed, you will know how to live in the family of God. That family is the church of the living God, the support and foundation of the truth.