3. Take care of any widow who is really in need.
4. But if a widow has children or grandchildren, they should learn to serve God by taking care of her, as she once took care of them. This is what God wants them to do.
5. A widow who is really in need is one who doesn't have any relatives. She has faith in God, and she keeps praying to him night and day, asking for his help.
6. A widow who thinks only about having a good time is already dead, even though she is still alive.
7. Tell all this to everyone, so they will do the right thing.
8. People who don't take care of their relatives, and especially their own families, have given up their faith. They are worse than someone who doesn't have faith in the Lord.
9. For a widow to be put on the list of widows, she must be at least sixty years old, and she must have been faithful in marriage.
10. She must also be well known for doing all sorts of good things, such as raising children, giving food to strangers, welcoming God's people into her home, helping people in need, and always making herself useful.